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This seems odd, since we are told often enough in these columns that ignoring one's intuition carries its own risks. Does it put the adult child in a no-win double bind? In return for being dazzled by a "mature" lover, May will find herself begging for crumbs - of respect, of the prospect of parenthood, of a partner taking their best interest at heart by adequate planning for eventual decline and death.
When a parent has brought home a sweet young thing, is the situation an exploitative one? Hair dye and Viagra do not transform a parent back into a carefree teenager.
But I don’t want to ever have to think of her as my competition.
Their interest in younger partners can make you wonder if you ever knew your parent at all.
Although it was years after his divorce from her mother, Kari was still shock when her father began dating younger women. “It made me feel gross, like he was taking advantage of them in some way.
“I couldn’t help but think that my father might think I was somehow too old to be worthy,” she says. I worried about my appearance in front of him more than a daughter should. It was all-around creepy.”We used to look at May to December romances as something sort of scandalous, but they’re becoming far more common as divorce rates rise and our obsession with youth continues.
More parents of adult children are dating, and marrying, partners who are as young as (or even younger than) their adult children.