Thai women dating american men
Their best chance of escaping poverty is to marry a rich man, or at least a man who can offer some financial security.The average single male foreigner visiting Pattaya (for example) supposedly meets that criteria.Like any women anywhere in the world, a woman from Thailand wants to make sure that the guy that she’s dating isn’t addicted to drugs or alcohol.I mean, let’s be honest here, she wants to see a fellow that has self-control, self-discipline and more importantly, respect for himself.I don’t have any facts and figures, but my guess is the percentage of Thai women seeking foreign husbands and boyfriends is higher than in most other countries. I’m not going to argue, the majority of Thai girls working the bars in Thailand’s popular tourist hot-spots like Pattaya, Bangkok, Phuket, Koh Samui, Hua Hin and Chiang Mai are very money orientated.
Outside of Thailand, guys tend to think they can do whatever they please when they visit Thailand. Unless you’ve been living under a rock during the equality of the genders, you’ll already understand that women appreciate their guys taking some pride in their appearance and putting effort into looking good, smelling good and having self-confidence in themselves.
So that’s an area that you need to flesh out yourself, and start learning the language so that you have an understanding of how they think, what words could be taken out of context or what words are similar and might be construed as confusing or insultive.
And never ever insult the Thai people or put down the Thai culture.
Take it steady, take it easy, and understand the culture at a very granular level. You know, it doesn’t take any effort at all to meet and date woman for the first time in a club or a bar. There are so many beautiful places and it doesn’t take much for you to open up a tourist map and pick something that you can both explore too.
And if I was a woman and our first date was at a bar, I would think you were a jerk. Talk about and have some fun together which then opens up conversation and allows both of you to get to know each other better.